Marriage

Planning a Wedding?

Engaged couples, one of whom is a registered member of St. Joseph’s church, should notify the pastor of their marriage intentions a year in advance of the proposed wedding date.

Eligibility

In order to be married in a Catholic Church both persons should be legally free to do so (i.e. of legal age, not currently married, etc.). Someone previously married, in addition to a civil decree of divorce, may require a church annulment.  It is possible to have a Catholic Church wedding for a couple, one of whom is not Catholic.

Registration

Formal registration for a church wedding requires 3 things:

  1. a copy of the baptismal certificate for anyone who is a baptized Christian (Catholic, Orthodox or Protestant). Such certificates are also available at the church where one was baptized.

  2. a completed marriage application provided by the church;

  3. a marriage preparation certificate indicating the couple has completed a pre-marriage course. (Those previously married will also require a certificate of annulment.)

Before the Wedding

The engaged couple needs to meet with the pastor once to arrange the registration, and again at a later date to finalize the details relating to the wedding service. A rehearsal with all involved should be planned at the church a day or two before the wedding.

Please clarify if you wish the priest to attend the wedding banquet afterwards.  In order to spiritually prepare for married life it is most appropriate (although not essential) to make a good confession before the marriage ceremony. 

Wedding Plans

Once an engaged couple has been formally registered to be married
at the church the planning process should be discussed and finalized.

The Wedding Ritual

Marriage is one of the Sacraments of the Catholic Church in which a man and woman are united and blessed by God. Their union is blessed by our Lord Jesus Christ through the Church. God's grace is imparted to them to live together in His love, mutually fulfilling and perfecting each other.

The Mystery of marriage of the Ukrainian Church is steeped in ritual and symbolism.

Each of the rituals has special meaning and significance.

Fees

There is no standard fee for liturgical services(typically honoraria for the priest range from $200 to $300).
Fees for the use of another church need to be arranged with the other pastor (typically $150 - $200). 
Fees for a choir or cantor also need to be arranged with those parties.

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